I hope all of you had a busy weekend but it was great. My cousins invited me for thanksgiving on saturday and then I went to visit my aunt with my family on sunday. Now there's isn't much to do but to study and I am sick on top of taht...not cool! =_=
Anyways, I want to write about a certain lifestyle today. Before any of you get offended or anything, let me tell you first that this is just my opinion so I'm not saying that I'm entirely right. I was thinking about an event that occured months ago. What hapenned? We were eating in the restaurant and a bunch of girls in the group wanted to get ...wild and have some fun. They wanted to go clubbing, get drunk,...and do whatever they felt like it. One girl in the group didn't want to do and the other girls were disappointed. They said We want the old you back! repeatedly. Wanting the old you back? What is that supposed to mean? So I asked my friend what they meant and she said that she used to go clubbing, get drunk, vomit, and get back home at impossible hours. But she didn't want to go back to that lifestyle. Honnestly, I am proud of her. I don't know if any of you noticed but she wants to put her life back together. Why? Simply because she feels that the wild life isn't healthy for her. Anyway, I am really glad that she realized that. I upseted me is her friends who tried to persuade her to go to her old bad habit. Why would you do that? It's ok to go clubbing to dance and have fun. It's alright to drink once in a while...taht'S what we call social drink. It's ok to stay late at night because you are having a good time with your friends. But it is not ok to stay late because of those junk. How can alcohol, drug, smoking, and gambling can bring benefit to your life? I believe I have every right to say this because I have witnessed families breaking apart because of addiction. Those girls who tried to bring my friend back to that kind of life should think before saying anything. They are like the little demons on the left shoulders saying 'It's ok. Just do it. Everything will be alright.' which is completely irresponsable and thoughtless. The life she was in was a life of filth. Take that money and buy yourself something more useful or you can even help some starving people who live in the streets. On top of that, she was about to get married. Her bow husband is someone who doesn't drunk nor any of that crap. Just try to imagine when they will have children and the wife comes back late at home. It won't be a pleasant thing to look at. I can imagine the father who's trying to put the children on the right track 'Listen children! Don't look at your mother. She's not a good example to look at. Don't do that ok? Look at dad instead.' Raising children is not easy and if you plan to have a family, you better start to fix yourself because living a life of filth is not the way to go. Why would you waste your life like this? Do something positive for yourself and stop wasting your money on crap like that.
I have seen people drowning into alcohol, and indulge themselves into adultery. It's simply disgusting. Can you respect and love yourself a little more than that?
Anyways, I want to write about a certain lifestyle today. Before any of you get offended or anything, let me tell you first that this is just my opinion so I'm not saying that I'm entirely right. I was thinking about an event that occured months ago. What hapenned? We were eating in the restaurant and a bunch of girls in the group wanted to get ...wild and have some fun. They wanted to go clubbing, get drunk,...and do whatever they felt like it. One girl in the group didn't want to do and the other girls were disappointed. They said We want the old you back! repeatedly. Wanting the old you back? What is that supposed to mean? So I asked my friend what they meant and she said that she used to go clubbing, get drunk, vomit, and get back home at impossible hours. But she didn't want to go back to that lifestyle. Honnestly, I am proud of her. I don't know if any of you noticed but she wants to put her life back together. Why? Simply because she feels that the wild life isn't healthy for her. Anyway, I am really glad that she realized that. I upseted me is her friends who tried to persuade her to go to her old bad habit. Why would you do that? It's ok to go clubbing to dance and have fun. It's alright to drink once in a while...taht'S what we call social drink. It's ok to stay late at night because you are having a good time with your friends. But it is not ok to stay late because of those junk. How can alcohol, drug, smoking, and gambling can bring benefit to your life? I believe I have every right to say this because I have witnessed families breaking apart because of addiction. Those girls who tried to bring my friend back to that kind of life should think before saying anything. They are like the little demons on the left shoulders saying 'It's ok. Just do it. Everything will be alright.' which is completely irresponsable and thoughtless. The life she was in was a life of filth. Take that money and buy yourself something more useful or you can even help some starving people who live in the streets. On top of that, she was about to get married. Her bow husband is someone who doesn't drunk nor any of that crap. Just try to imagine when they will have children and the wife comes back late at home. It won't be a pleasant thing to look at. I can imagine the father who's trying to put the children on the right track 'Listen children! Don't look at your mother. She's not a good example to look at. Don't do that ok? Look at dad instead.' Raising children is not easy and if you plan to have a family, you better start to fix yourself because living a life of filth is not the way to go. Why would you waste your life like this? Do something positive for yourself and stop wasting your money on crap like that.
I have seen people drowning into alcohol, and indulge themselves into adultery. It's simply disgusting. Can you respect and love yourself a little more than that?
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