Dealing with a creep

Hi everyone,

So it was a long week. We're just Tuesday but it seems like the week is never ending. My exam was yesterday and it was mad hard. The exam has two parts. The first one was computer related. It was not as I expected. We had two hours to solve 5 computer problems. I was only able to complete 3. I don't know what will happen. When we were done, we had 15 minutes of break before doing the second part of the exam which was easier but still long. I barely began the last problem and it was over. I discussed with my fellow classmates and they felt the same way. At least I'm not on my own for being lost in the forest.

Prior to the exam, I had an extreme overdose of stress. It was insane. Not only it was due to the amount of study I have to put for this summer course but I was bothered by a stalker. It was insane. INSANE!!!! Before I write about this story, I have to warn that I'm not going to say any names in order to keep everything confidential.

I was invited to an event and I was introduced to a guy. He seemed very nice and at the end, he asked for my cellphone and my friend's as well. What could possibly go wrong for giving my number right? On top of that my friends know this person.

Few weeks later, I got a phone call from a number I didn't recognize. When I answered, it was that guy. I wonder what he wanted but apparently, he just wanted a normal conversation. Ok! Not a big deal. After we hang up, I got a facebook friend request from him. When I accepted him. I keep on getting spams of messages  in my inbox.

 

To make this long story super short, his first message had a line which is similar to this: 'I hope we can have supper at home together.' What the hell? I tried to not pay to much attention to it and I'm not the kind to jump into conclusion although his comment was...really weird. The next few messages consisted of...: 'I want to run a restaurant with you. I also want to settle down and find a wife to love her forever.' O.o I replied: 'Good for you...but I'm afraid I will work in my fields once I graduate.' Are you nuts? Running a restaurant and investing money with a person I barely know is out of question. Then, his last message was pretty much straight forward: 'The first time I met you, I totally liked you. I wonder if we are compatible.' Holy shit!!!! Are you serious? That's when I got the shiver down my spine. I quickly responded him back that I consider him as a friend and nothing else will ever happen. I deleted from facebook and blocked him.

 

The next morning, I checked my cellphone to know what time it is. Guess what I see! A missed call and a message in my voice mail. I checked the number and it was him. The voice mail was as follow:

 

Can you call me back? I have something to discuss with you. I really want to talk with you. I'll be waiting.

 

What did I do? Nothing! Day two, nothing much. I blocked him on my cell phone. But everytime someone I blocked calls me, that person is redirected directly to my voice mail. Day three at 9pm, I got another missed call from him and a voice mail as well:

 

Ohhh! Why did you block me on facebook?

 

@_@ Day 3, nothing happened. Day four, there was another voice mail from him and he was literally talking about random shit. So this happened till day 8. To endure all of this is insane. @_@ I was annoyed to an extreme level. I just couldn't take it anymore. I grabbed my cell phone and called that moron. I can tell you that once he answered the phone, he was all happy and crap.

 

Him: Hi how are you?

Me: We need to talk. Can you stop calling and bothering me? I blocked you from facebook and I'm not answering back your calls. There's a reason to this. I don't want to talk to you.

Him: Oh......I'm so sorry about this.

Me: I can't believe it. You call me every single day at an hour like this. What do you want me to do?

Him: I just ...wanted to be your friend?

Me: I am a very kind and nice person. I really don't want to do this. I could call the immigration office and send you back to your country in less than 24 hours.

Him:...

Me: So please, do not bother me again. I hope we are clear on this.

Him: Yes I understand.

 

Since that conversation, he never called me again....