This will be a short post since I'm still in the middle of my midterms. So it was Valentine yesterday. I got a beautiful bouquet of roses :) I would prefer chocolates because I can't eat roses but I was happy nonetheless. However, it turns out to be sour this morning. See, I am supposed to be in class today but somehow, I felt really tired and wanted to sleep more. I managed to get at the subway at 8h15 but still couldn't get to class before 9 so the door was locked. Great! -_- I was soo pissed that I wanted to throw my shoe at the teacher. Why does he has to do this? Come on! I'm sure he takes the car! Try to take the STM in the morning and he will get a better understanding of how poor students struggle to go to his class.
On a positive note, let's go back to Valentine's day. I read the newspaper yesterday and there was an article where a guy asked a girl for marriage. It was mentionned that he wanted to make it special and out of the ordinary. So this morning, there was an update on that story and she agreed to his proposal. Apparently, she didn't expect anything at all as he prepared a wedding in Las Vegas. I though it was cute but how about if she refused? That was a bold move from him. All his money spent on the preparation would go into waste. I guess it depends on each woman. If a guy would ask me something like that in public, I would feel shy...not necessarily in a good way nor comfortable! Why? Well, I prefer something more discret. ...Now we are going to a tangent line...
Let's talk about sexual creeps. =_= I was a victim from this for many times. I was only 18 years old when it first hapenned. So it was during broad daylight and I was walking to the bus stop. I had to walk 15 minutes to the bus stop. So on mid way, there was an old man with his little dog who came talking to me. Since I am friendly as ever, I talked to him as well despised him being a stranger! What could go wrong? He must be a grandpa! So he just asked me where I was going, etc. Then he showed me his house and wanted me to visit him sometimes. I nodded and told him I would when I will be done with my exams. In my mind I was like: 'HA! Dream on old man! I don't go to stranger's house!' So I told him bye and walked ahead. When I got to my bus stop, he came as well. o.o He continued talking and I politely listened to him. Then Suddenly, he asked: 'Did you ever had sex before?' I was like wtf and remained silent. He continued asking me: 'come on tell me! Are you a virgin?' Me: 'Why do you ask?' The old man: 'You shouldn't be afraid about sex. I met an asian lady last week and she liked it.' I was like:' OH MY DOUGLAS! WHY ME?' I politely smiled and thank Douglas the bus came. *shrugs*
Second time I got harassed was last autumn. I was really scared!!! So I met this guy again and as you know, I am too friendly -_- So we had a conversation about studies and random stuff. All of a sudden,
Him: Wanna go clubbing next week?
Me: no. I don't go to those kind of places.
Him: Come on! It will be fun. (he kept on insisting for 30 minutes)
Me: Ok...then how about I invite a few friends?
Him: Nah, it's better just the two of us.
Me: ..........I'll give you a call if I can make it.
Him: ok! I'll write it in my agenda for next friday night at 10pm.
When I got home, I was going apesh*t! What am I going to do?? ..ok calm down...maybe he won't call right? Then my cell phone is ringing. Since I don't have the id caller, I had to answer the call and it was him! He kept on asking again and I told him I was too busy with school. So he postponed it for next week again.
A few days later, I went out with friends and that creep called again! So Nixon had the bright idea to pretend to be my boyfriend so he answered the call. So it was him! But Tam answered my cell instead of Nixon and he passed it to me....Fail! The next day, the creep called again but Thany answered and told him off I was busy. Geez! Can't guys know that I'm not interested at this point? Seriously!!! Afterwards, I couldn't answer my cell anymore. I told my close friends and family that if i don't answer it's because I don't have the id caller and don'T want to talk with that creep. So eventually, I threathen the phone company to leave if they don't charge me cheaper with idcaller included. It turned out well! So now I have id caller :D And I don't answer wierd calls again XD
Moral of story:
1.Perverts can be from a range of all age. There's old man, youngsters, etc.
2.They prey girls at any time of the day!
3.Don't be friendly with strangers! Except for friends of friends!
4.Never talk to people out of pity!
So back to valentine's day, it was great. But don't worry, I didn't get flowers from a creep! :3
Time to get back to class now...hopefully it's break soon! bye :)
ps. sorry for the long post again....It always ends up long.
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