I am going to write about a delicate subject today that is women's weight. I went on facebook last night and i saw this picture on my friend's page...
(I wish i could give credits to the one who made this but it is unknown. I do not own this picture or anything!)
So I read various comments from different people and mostly say: 'Oh the skinny girl should eat!' or 'I would like more meat on the bones please!' or 'I'll take the girl on the right anytime'. I understand people want to encourage women understanding that being too skinny is not pretty so they should eat more. Naturally, I thought it was true that skinny is not the ideal look...but then I'm like: 'Wait a minute!...What am I doing? Who am I to judge what is right or not?'
Being skinny doesn't mean anything. It doesn't mean that the girl on the left is anorexic. What do we know about her? Maybe she's eating normally but that's how she turns out to be. How about the girls who are healthy but looks naturally like this? I think we are giving the wrong message to young girls here. Here is what I think. It doesn't matter wether you are skinny or fat. What matters most is being healthy. None can tell another how fat or skiny she has to be.
That being said, I had a friend back in high school and she was bullied because she was skinny. Other girls would call her anorexic when she isn't and told her that she has money to buy herself some food. Come on! After school, she asked me if i find her skinny because of the girls bullying her. She eats alot and wears large clothes to make herself look bigger. People these days!
What<s worse is the pervert guys leaving the comments. I read many of those saying 'I'd totally hit the left one!' We do not want to know your fantasies and a girl should change her body or sacrifice her eating habit just to please the guy. If he doesn't you, skinny girls, leave him! Love should not be entirely based on appearance anyway.How about the boys? Why are the girls the only target here? There are also skinny boys and nobody is saying anything. >,>
That being said, I had a friend back in high school and she was bullied because she was skinny. Other girls would call her anorexic when she isn't and told her that she has money to buy herself some food. Come on! After school, she asked me if i find her skinny because of the girls bullying her. She eats alot and wears large clothes to make herself look bigger. People these days!
What<s worse is the pervert guys leaving the comments. I read many of those saying 'I'd totally hit the left one!' We do not want to know your fantasies and a girl should change her body or sacrifice her eating habit just to please the guy. If he doesn't you, skinny girls, leave him! Love should not be entirely based on appearance anyway.How about the boys? Why are the girls the only target here? There are also skinny boys and nobody is saying anything. >,>
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