I'm so happy today! The blog is back to normal meaning I can post pictures like before! XD There was some sort of bug for the past month and I couldn't add any picture. Well I don't have any pictures to post for this time but it's just unfortunate because I had so many I wanted to post before.
Anyways, let's go to the main topic! The man? You mean medium rare or what? No! What type of man do you want??? Interesting questions. So whatever I'm going to answer this is what I want. But of course, we have some particular criterias in common. What do we want from them? What are we expecting from them? Why do we chose one over the other? It will be my pleasure to answer you these questions.
So to answer all the questions above in one word, it is love. Most women do not really care about the physical appearance. What they love about the man is the inner beauty. It does sound kind of cheezy but it's true. Physical appearance does not last forever. As a matter of fact, everthing is made of molecules. The keyboard I'm typing with is made of condensed molecules. The little cows you see in farms are also huge packs of molecules. Water is made of H20, two atoms of hydrogen and one of oxygen. That being said, everything is made of molecules. The piece of meat you buy in store is also a piece of condensed molecule. Sad to say this but a corpse is also made of molecules. A chemistry equation can be modified and so can be the human body. However, the inner beauty doesn't have a form. Our personality and emotions do not change over time like the human body. When we grow old, we will all get wrinkles and we will have grey hair. What will happen at that moment? We will not remain pretty or hot anymore. So if a guy dates with me because I'm cute, he will definately leave me for someone younger and prettier. It could be worse! What happens if I get into an accident and I get disfigured? Do I need to write any further? You should get the point by now. Love is not about physical appearance. Love is not about lust. You can even fake appearance with plastic surgeries and with make up but you can't fake emotions or the personality. So guys, just be yourself and you don't have to try to hard just to look hot. It doesn't matter if you have a belly, you are bald, or whatever. Have confidence. :3 But ok! -_- If you have six packs then it's ok as well! :D The importance is that you really are yourself. If you train want to train, do it for your own personal reasons such as wanting to be healthy. But ot because you want to look great for someone. Do it for yourself!
Next point, what do I find HOT in men? There are certain things I find irresistible in men. I went on a date once. We went to eat and after he paid, the waitress gave him back the change. His puts it in his pockets. After a moment, he grabs the change and stares at it for a moment. There was a box where you put money in there to donate to sick children. So he put it all in there. It really made my heart melt.
Me: Awwww! You're so sweet! XD
Him: Huh? About what?
Me: You just donated money to children. Do you do that often?
Him: Well, it's because the coins are to heavy in my pockets so I get rid of them.
Me: ...-_- oh....So it was just to get rid of the change...
Him: *noticed me disappointed* Uhm! But yeah! I donate as well! XD
Lol It was a cute fail but at least the money is given to help other people. I dislike people who just know how to gain. Today's society we think 'Another day, another dollar!'. People are materialistic and greedy. So it's nice to see a man who's kindhearted. Another thing that makes me feel really special is when a man stands up to protect me.
Jerk friend: Gloria, you are stupid!
Me: > : ( Say what!?
Jerk friend: STUPID!
My hero: Shut up! Don't talk to my woman like that!
Oh damn! I would be super melting! It's so sexy. I'm not into the violence thing. Don't start throwing punch or anything but just to defend your woman is hot. The worse thing that could happen is the guy to remain silent. Now you know why she would dump him the next day. A woman wants a man who can be like a father to her. A man who will give her advice and guide her through her life when she needs. A woman wants a man who can be like a brother to her. She wants her man to stand up and protect her when someone is walking on her dignity. A woman wants her man to be like a husband...a man who will remain faithful and love her from the bottom of his heart and not just playing under her skirt.
Else than that, it's simply the obvious. A woman wants a house, needs a car, and wants children (I just want 1...maximum two). She wants a husband who can help her build all of that along with her. So if you sit like a bummer in the living room drinking beer and playing video games, well...it's not going to be really helpful. You have to be productive and give commitment to the relationship.
Of course there's also the other section.
-Polite to the parents
-Not abusive in any way
-Respectful
-Be considerate
-the list goes on... but it's just basic stuff
Another important thing, the man must share similar values to mine because that's what we will pass on to our children. So if the guy is atheist and the girl is extremely christian, then you might want to discuss about that and decide on what you want to pass on to your children. Anyway, I'm done with my rambling. Stay tuned for more! :D Have a nice week.
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