Hi everyone,
So we have to change the time now and spring is there soon or is it here already? Anyways, I'm glad it will be warmer so I can put aside my heavy winter coat and boots. But still, be careful with the weather. I'm still recovering from the flu and I'm going to meet the doctor next week anyways. I am overly tired and the headaches are a real pain.
So I want to write about negativity. It really is something that turns me off and I have this problem with a classmate. So we just had our exam and everything turned out bad right? She keeps on winning all the time. -This class is way too hard.-There's no way we can make it.-We should've taken a different class instead.-I'm thinking or dropping this class and you should consider it.- bla bla bla
Really? It's true that it isn't easy but I hate it when people can't stop complaining all the time. Whatever you do, wherever you go, nothing is easy. There isn't any shortcuts. You think you will have it easier by escaping the issue but it won't solve anything. You pick up a different course, you will be presented to new and different problems and challenges. So after all, we finally got our grades for our exams and the results aren't really pretty...well especially for me. So she dropped the class because she didn't get a good grade and wants me to tag along? Are you nuts? Just because YOU give up, doesn't mean that I have to follow the same path as you. Whatever is you do is your decision and your choices. Wtf? Anyways, it will be extremely hard for me to pass all my courses but what choices do I have? I also discussed with my teacher and he told me the same thing. He said it will be difficult to pass but it's not impossible. That's right. This is my last semester and these are the last courses I have. I am going to push myself to work hard on it.
Anyways, I don't like negativity and this girl is simply bringing my moral down. I could give it but what would happen if I did pass? Complaining and throwing a tantrum won't take me ahead in life. It won't make me understand the class material any better. So why should I just give up? I want to give it a try and if it still doesn't work out, then too bad. I'll have no other choice but to come back on autumn. Giving up has always been easier than persevering. I just hate it when people are failing, they drag other people along with them. Why do they do that? Because you don't want to look like the lone loser? Sigh. Anyways, when I told her I didn't drop the class, she thought for a moment and said: 'I regret dropping it. It doesn't seem that hard. I just didn't study enough.' >_>
You will meet negative people in the future if you haven't yet. When they fail, they will probably try to drag you down along with them. Maybe it's because they really don't want to look like a lone loser or they don't want to see you sucess. When they give up and see you success, you know that person will feel bitter towards someone who didn't give up. Just don't let anyone decide of your own fate. If you want to give up, that's ok too. I mean we always have situations where we don't have a choice but to give up. It must be a personal decision and not a group choice.
I'm done with my rambling. If she ever throws me another negative comment, I'm afraid I'm going to ask her kindly to shut her mouth. :) Oh yeah! I feel much better now. So a new week begins tomorrow and I will be distributing food to homeless people. I made a promess to do this if I ever pass all my courses from last semester. I didn't have time to do it but tomorrow I will. Maybe that's why I'm doing bad this semester...extemely bad. God's wrath for not keeping my promess. :( So have a nice week. :D
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